Connect with your eyes, but don't stare If there are many people with whom you are speaking, look at each of them, in order to establish a good connection with all those present, and note if they are listening to you or not. The constant eye contact of a specific person causes him to look away from you automatically, and the lack of communication makes them feel ignored . You may feel some difficulty or fear at first, but don't hesitate, keep practicing, and you'll get used to it over time..